Internet Slams Broke Man Buying Video Game Instead of Wife’s Christmas Gift

A lady has obtained an outpouring of sympathy on-line after revealing her husband does not have any cash to purchase her a Christmas current, as he is “reluctant to work.”

The lady posted her dilemma on Reddit’s common Am I The A**gap subreddit, below the title Czechvegan, revealing she practically begged her different half to at the very least get her a Christmas card.

But she claims he branded her “materialistic,” regardless of spending the final of his cash on video video games for himself, and having the cheek to ask her for items.

The lady, who revealed she works as a librarian, mentioned: “With Christmas coming up, I did want a gift from my husband, mainly for the symbolism like the thought of getting a Christmas gift, I know he doesn’t have much money because he’s very reluctant to work and skips going to his part time job most of the time, so I told him it could be something small, like a little stuffed animal or a keychain or even a Christmas card, but today he told me he doesn’t have money and won’t have any until next year because he spent his last money on a video game he had been wanting.”

Despite his assertion the vacations needs to be about household, it appears he has double requirements, as he’d already given her his Christmas listing.

She continued: “He says I am materialistic for wanting a gift (even though he asked for several things which I already bought) and that Christmas should be about time with family instead of material things so I do feel guilty and like maybe I am wrong but I’m not sure.”

And seeing as he wasn’t a fan of working, she revealed they reside solely off of her paycheck.

She added: “If it matters I pay all the bills and living costs so it’s not that I’ve ever asked for anything (he did get me a card on my birthday when I asked him to) so I don’t think I’m that materialistic but I do feel a bit bad so is it unreasonable for me to want a Christmas gift given that it would be really cheap or is it a reasonable desire?”

Her scenario has amassed greater than 10,000 upvotes since being shared on Monday, and attracted 1000’s extra feedback.

In a bid to know extra about her scenario, she responded to quite a few questions claiming her husband’s line of labor is development, they usually’ve been married two years.

Clarifying his place on employment, she mentioned: “…My husband says he’s only willing to work part time because he wants to have more time to play video games.”

While she added their relationship “definitely changed after marriage, he worked full time before but after marriage said he was burned out and then eventually got a part time job but won’t really go to that, but what can I do, asking him calmly and communicating doesn’t change anything and it angers him if I bring it up and if I didn’t pay all the bills we would be homeless and if I didn’t do the chores we’d be living in a pigsty.”

Her scenario has seen a tidal wave of recommendation, with quite a few folks urging her to judge what she will get out of the connection.

Sapper12D commented: “Dump him via a gift under the tree. Make sure it’s to yourself op, cause it’s the best thing you can get yourself this year.”

SerenityFate wrote: “NTA jeez the audacity of this man. OP you deserve better than this.”

Honeymochie mentioned: “Never mind the gifts, why is OP with this lazy person at all? Unwilling to work at his part time job while his wife does all the bill paying? He’s not even a house husband.”

While koolhandluc thought: “NTA. Keep the gifts and return the husband.”

“Seriously what a tool. He won’t work and can’t even get his ass up for his part time job… why suffer like this??” Mrose1491 added.

According to Statista, Americans had been anticipated to spend roughly $886, on common, on Christmas items in 2021.

Breaking down spending, web site Fortunly discovered Americans spend a median of $123 on their different half at Christmas.

They claimed males spend $20 extra on their different half than ladies, and added: “When it comes to high-end generosity, 12.5% of Americans spend more than $300 on their spouses during Christmas.”

Newsweek has reached out to Czechvegan for remark.

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File photograph of man taking part in online game. A lady ahs revealed her broke husband is not getting her a present, as he spent the final of his money on video games.
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